Truth

[NrrdGirl]

A game in which you speak the truth of how you feel towards others in here, because I feel that everyone needs to speak the truth rather than hold back their entire lives. If so, you're doomed to be a doormat. This isn't to incite a fight, it's because I feel that ALOT of people in here can be very fake at times. Yes, I've read the rules and it is NOT flaming. I'm not attacking people for no reason. I just feel that I've been honest this whole time that I've been here, and I feel that myself and one other person have been the only ones who have the nerve to speak our mind. I feel like everyone else pretends to be something that they're not, and it's frustrating when you post honestly while everyone else puts on an act. I'm speaking the truth, something I would think that everyone would rather hear than lies. The truth isn't always nice, and that's LIFE. And, the worst that can happen is that I get banned. Oh well. The forum isn't my life and it shouldn't be anyone else's, either. If I get banned just for speaking the truth, then that's pretty f***** up, I won't lie. But, it's not like you're killing me. =/

[allie]

Why would I ban you? You're cool, and you're a nice person.

[NrrdGirl]

Jan 10, 2009 23:02:00 GMT @allie said:

Why would I ban you? You're cool, and you're a nice person.

Because people here seem to dislike me for telling the truth in all my posts. Yes, I'm blunt and as I've said the truth isn't always nice. I feel like people act too fake and nice here at times. =/

[allie]

I can't help it; off the internet I wouldn't hurt a fly and everyone thinks that I'm probably the most positive person in the world.

But sometimes on the internet I turn negative in my mind, and I don't want that. That's a bad thing for me, and I get depressed. Luckily my friends on here make me feel better about myself, and I end up becoming positive.

I would like the truth out of some people who think of me. Really. Even though I'm sensitive. ^^;

[NrrdGirl]

Jan 10, 2009 23:16:50 GMT @allie said:

I can't help it; off the internet I wouldn't hurt a fly and everyone thinks that I'm probably the most positive person in the world.

But sometimes on the internet I turn negative in my mind, and I don't want that. That's a bad thing for me, and I get depressed. Luckily my friends on here make me feel better about myself, and I end up becoming positive.

I would like the truth out of some people who think of me. Really. Even though I'm sensitive. ^^;

You may if more people would post in here. But, everyone's afraid of getting banned. I refuse to start my list if nobody else is in here to hear it because there are ALOT of things I have to say.

[allie]

Hun, I'm not gonna ban anyone. You can trust me. Just... erm.. if it ends up in a Flame war, I'm gonna have to take some drastic measures--and I'm not into the type of fighting, so...

I guess I'll go first, with you Elphaba. It seems that you and I have something in common--which I love.

You are a nice girl, and with... a lots of fandoms. I I for one freaking love it. And your sig words 'Don't stress over people who insult you from behind a computer screen' really made me happy now. Thank you.

[numbuh9494]

I like this. I've always wondered what people thought of me. I never get to know.

*Ahem*

So. Allie, I think you're an amazing fanartist and fanwriter. I also think you're one of the kindest people I've ever met online, and you're a beautiful person inside and out. Your pictures of Nigel and Rachel always make me smile.

And that is the truth.

[C7Angelocas12]

It would seem that Elphaba has organized a rather unique game for the Codename: Kids Next Door Fan Forum. I will agree with numbuh9494's assessment of Allie, adding that both of them have produced chuckles out of me, between numbuh9494's penchant for Lee and Sonia's romantic friendship and Allie's deviantART images of Nigel and Rachel together. I will expect both girls to stay as positive and optimistic as I've observed during my time here, in keeping with their respective couples.

[NrrdGirl]

I feel like certain people here use their sexuality way too much, and assume that just because they are something, that their opinions and views are better than everyone else's because if not, then they can just use the 'you hate me because I'm this', card.

I feel like certain people try to be too nice at times, when honestly, it makes you look like a fake ass Barbie doll. The world isn't kind, and not everybody will be kind to you. Stop being a doormat, grow some balls, and tell the truth about how you feel toward people for once.

I feel like everyone obsesses over a certain person who doesn't really do anything, and I stand by that. They're nice, but at the same time, what do they really do around here that constitutes a parade with a clown and dancing bears?

I feel like alot of people pretend to be so pure and innocent. I realize that this is a KND forum, but you all need to accept that we're growing up, as all children do. Even the KND members, and they'll go through phases dealing with sex, puberty, peer pressure, drugs, drinking, grades, and other things that may be bad or worse. The M rated things in life make up the majority, you can't block kids from the world, guys.

I feel like alot of people get way too defensive of pairings. Seriously, guys, it's not YOUR show so why do you care? If they get together, then great. If not, oh well. The world doesn't stop spinning for one person. It's pretty sad that it's taken far too seriously. It can be part of your life, but it shouldn't run your life. I'll flat out say it, I hate Lizzie Divine. I don't care. If you hate my favorite characters, I don't care because I know in MY HEART that everyone else IS better than her. She treated Nigel terribly, and it ended. Point made. As long as YOU like it, you shouldn't attack everyone else. Just know that YOU are right.

I feel like everyone is afraid to talk about other popular things other than KND, because they think they may get banned or something. This may be a fan forum for KND, but there ARE other boards.

It's annoying as hell, when people try to bring KND into other subjects. Like, a KND version of Scooby Doo or a KND version of Pirates of the Caribbean. It's annoying, seriously.

I LOATHE people who try to censor me here. Everyone insists that it's a 'kid' forum, but seriously, look on average how many members log in and post a day. Most of the members we have, have NEVER posted and NEVER will. We have, on average, probably 50 people that post often. And, they're all in their teens or mature enough for some of the topics we have, so there's no need for all the Omg Hush Hush Children are Here bullcrap. Plus, if the kid IS younger than 13, they have to be deleted. ProBoards rules states that you MUST be 13 to join a forum, and it's on the news flash on the main forum page. If nobody does, then ProBoards AND the owner could get sued. Plus, it's not OUR responsibility to babysit somebody's kid if they just happen to get on here. The rule of 13 is made known, and we've done our part to warn people. That's the parent's fault for not setting parental controls. It's the way it works. This isn't a Disney film, I'm not going to say 'Oh Fudge You! You pickle puss sour lumpkin!', if you piss me off. =/

I hate when normal members try to do the job of a Mod. Why the hell do YOU care what I'm doing? Mind your own business. If I'm doing something wrong, a MOD will tell me, not YOU. Don't give me the 'Oh I'm helping out', crap. Because you're not. You're doing it to be a little biotch. If you are not a Mod, I'm NOT listening to you.

It's pathetic, how many of the people here think I'm so 'mean'. I'm not mean. I'm HONEST. If I don't like something, I WILL say it and I'm not afraid. The worst that can happen is that I get banned. Oh dear, whatever will I do? Banned for telling the TRUTH? =/ The truth isn't always nice, as I said, and people need to accept that. As I have said, the forum shouldn't be ANYONE'S life. If it is, I suggest getting outside more with other lifeforms present. It's a fun place to post and have fun. If you don't like what I have to say, DEAL WITH IT. I've never lied to any of you about a damn thing, and that should be taken into consideration. Ask Celra. We talk on the phone and I'm a perfectly normal, nice person.

SPEAK YOUR MIND, ALWAYS. NEVER HOLD BACK YOUR TRUE THOUGHTS. STAND UP FOR WHAT IS RIGHT, EVEN IF YOU ARE STANDING ALONE.

[RohaHat]

The truth makes people kinda crazy sometimes.

Yeah, you sound mean. I don't think you are, but you do sound like it. I do it all the time; my friends ask for my opinion, and especially if they ask for it over MSN or the like I will sound harsh with my reply because I'm being honest.

I don't even know if I know you all that well, Elphaba. Have we spoken before? I don't think we have. Hi.

I don't even know if I'm doing this right, what I'm posting here, but I'll try to keep it on topic.

>> I need a more original way to start my sentences.

I haven't been here much for a while, so I don't have much of an opinion on much. But I think this thread is a good idea, even if it did wind up into a huge argument. Because people need to know. I always want the truth from people. I don't see why people wouldn't want the truth.

I'm probably doing this wrong and it's late and I'm going to be quiet now because I haven't much else to say, as far as I know.

This post makes no sense. ><

[GoldenFlither]

Hey, this looks interesting. A chance for people to be honest towards one another.

I...really don't have a problem with anybody here. This is just a place I go to when I need a break from school and my social life, just to talk to people who share my interest in KND. I don't care what a person's flaws may be (all right, so there are those who can tend to get immature at times); seeing people so enthusiastic about a show that I like is great. I never talk about KND to anybody, so this is a place to get my thoughts out in the open.

Really, this thread has helped me out a lot. When I first stumbled across this show, I was hooked immediately. But I basically had to watch it in secret. When I discovered the magic of the internet, it was just such a relief to find others who like the show as much as (if not more than) I do.

One thing: Fights. When people start fights, it's frustrating, juvenile and redundant.

[NrrdGirl]

I honestly hope that this thread continues. So far, it seems to be doing more good than harm.

[Celra]

I think everyone in here pretty much needs to be honest about how the feel towards others on here. I'm always honest on here and Real life even if it hurts.

I mean guys if someone's being a complete jerk on here why are we just going to sit back and let someone insult us?

If someone is gonna be an ass to me I'm going to curse them out and tell them where to go.

Sometimes I think alot of you need to do that. It seems like you are all way to nice here and that's how come people take end up taking advantage of you when your to nice.

Yes It is alright to be nice. But at the same time being overly nice can be a bad thing.

[allie]

... D: I'm in a bad spot. I'm too overly nice. I can't help it.

[Celra]

Jan 11, 2009 17:21:38 GMT @allie said:

... D: I'm in a bad spot. I'm too overly nice. I can't help it.

It's not bad Allie you just need to learn to say no and not let people push you around.